The other day, while reading OK Weekly (yes, we subscribe--the greatest birthday present a girl could ask for. It's also my favorite gift to give to newly weds. I like to say that if there's a celebrity gossip magazine in the house the newly weds will never lack for conversation) I passed by an ad for the new Anderson Cooper talk show. I turned to the hubbs and said, "Did you know he's a Vanderbilt?" (I should enter here and say that the hubbs had no idea who Anderson Cooper is). The hubbs said, "This generation of Vanderbilts are all self-made. We used it as a case-study once. They dispersed their money to the point that none of them were worth anything."
I looked straight at the hubbs and said, "with a name like Vanderbilt you can never be self-made. Gloria may have been born penniless (which she was not) and she is a gifted person in her own right but having the last name Vanderbilt paved the way for her to get the things that she wanted."
The hubbs could see where I was coming from but still thought that we could use the Vanderbilts as people who didn't invest well.
The whole conversation reminded me of this quote.
Vanderbilt or no, I say we're all pretty lucky to have the opportunities that we do.
We have a copy of this on our fridge, and I think you will appreciate it as well: http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_veX1QW-LCLo/TSQ653SroEI/AAAAAAAAJYw/eUnaj3OO9hQ/s1600/4709.png
ReplyDeleteThe current system is far from perfect, but it is good to step back and realize how much we Really Do Have, Vanderbilts or not!